This post was inspired by my cousin’s blog post – Our Secrets to Love. She offered some lessons she’s learned in her marriage. Check out her blog – Watering Our Seeds it’s a great new blog. I was like I’m going to do 20 lessons and as I started typing; I was like 20 is a lot. I decided to focus on 10 that way not to overwhelm you. My 20th anniversary is November 16th,